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"Let’s assume your relationship is a refrigerator. One day, a problem arises in your relationship—the refrigerator quits working. […] There are a few things you can do at this point, once you’ve mopped up the mess and scraped the remains of last night’s lunch out of the fridge. One solution is to fix the refrigerator; another is to replace it. A third solution is to leave the refrigerator exactly where it is and change your life around the problem—“From this day forward, I will bring no frozen or refrigerated foods into this house.” In the poly community, the last option is the one most people choose.

…The problem is still there. The root has not been touched. The broken refrigerator is still sitting in the corner, dripping water. You haven’t actually dealt with the underlying causes at all; you haven’t addressed the insecurity or fear of loss or fear of being replaced; you’ve just “solved” the problem by shielding yourself from situations that might make you address it. You’ve “solved” the broken refrigerator by passing a rule against bringing refrigerated food into the house."

Source: morethantwo.com
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thisishangingrockcomics:

so bored @ work i started doodling all these shit comics on business cards

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sh1re:

happy easter

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art-of-whore:

i still cant believe the easter bunny died for our sins

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Clean wrx

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New favorite baby name for a girl:

Isabelline

A diminutive attributed to Queen Isabella and also a color, a pale yellow.

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Love my boy

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Michael’s birthday